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Anything I want?

March 24, 2009 - 9:31 am No Comments

So, it’s inevitable. At some point your beautiful little boys will be interested in T & A.

In a household where TV, YouTube, and video games are highly monitored, and access to information is on a need-to-know basis, all you need is a trip to Buenos Aires to defenestrate all your well-established home regulations.

(Ok – I am showing off my newly acquired Latin – defenestrate – an honest to goodness real English word that means – to throw out the window. But I digress…)

Any stroll down this busy city of 12 million people will invariably give us plenty of topics to talk about. We like to think of them as “teachable moments”, a phrase of late much in vogue thanks to the media’s characterization of President Obama’s Special Olympics sound bite. Thank Goodness it was not Bush or it would have been another “impechable moment”! (Again, I digress..)

Argentina’s very popular Calle Florida, a walkable open air mall with a variety of shops, artisans and musicians, also features plenty of Vegas-styled hookers handing out printed cards with boobs and phone numbers.

As we are accustomed to answering our kids’ questions honestly, we had the whole prostitution talk and how it’s illegal in many countries, albeit also known as the oldest profession.

So Thomas spots a huge poster of a scantily clad beauty holding a key and asks, “Mom, is this a prostitution house?” No, it’s a locksmith. Prostitution houses are illegal here and in the States, except for Vegas.

“Can we have her make us some keys?” No, she’s not actually in there. “The girl in the undies is just so people notice that there’s a locksmith here,” I clarify. Explaining the whole “sex sells” concept to a curious 11-year old is easy when his eyes pop out whenever there’s pretty women around.

“So, what will the girls do in those Vegas houses?”
Anything you want.
“Anything?”
Yes.
“Well, if I go there then I’ll ask her to start making dinner.”

Later on, we went to a food court and the topic came up again. “I’ve had dreams about women,” stated Thomas. “Really?” says Dad. “Do tell!”

“Well, there was a girl cleaning my house and I told her: ‘Now do the oven,’ and I showed her the oven. ‘Then do the floors’, and I showed her the floors. And she just looked at me funny and said, ‘I want to do you’. Then I kind of freaked and I woke up.”

Lunch, $22. Souvenirs, $8. Having your child calmly recite his first erotic dream… Speechless.

Teaching our Children

February 20, 2009 - 1:52 pm 3 Comments

“I don’t have the patience to do that. You are a saint that you can homeschool,” said my good friend. WHAT? Anyone who knows me well knows I am the most impatient person alive today. It may be part of my OCD, but I am an instant gratification person. I move quickly, sometimes not so accurately, prefering to do things over rather than take the time to think it through first.

Tom says that I’m tactical not strategic. My mother says: “El que no tiene cabeza tiene que tener buenos pies”. Roughly translated, “If you do not use your head, you have to be prepared to use your feet.” But I digress.

How is it that we have been convinced that we are not capable or do not have the patience to teach our children? Starting from the tender age of 6, they are expected to get up, get on a bus, be in school for 8 hours, keep track of all the different subjects, deal with all the incredible variety of social challenges that may arise, interpret the world and make the right decisions, put it all in context, come back on the bus, tell us about their day, and do homework for what in many cases seems like an eternity.

Then when we try to help them with homework and they don’t get it, or rebel and act up, we are frustrated and lose our patience. The poor little guys have been overstimulated for ten hours, and now they are supposed to do busy work at home? What did they do for 8 hours in a classroom? The expectation that all this work has to be done in the short time they remain awake and on weekends saps any possibility of play and meaningful interaction with mom, dad, siblings and friends. It affects the relationship between parents and kids in a negative way. Parents become frustrated and feel they have no patience, and kids get mad, act up, and are sent to their room.

Many end up resenting it all and do not learn to love learning – which is what education at such a tender age should be all about.

So now that the economy is in the toilet, and our schools continue to move in the direction of quantity vs. quality – and the images and influences thrust upon our young children all day long become increasingly disturbing — I urge parents who care to take back the education of their kids and make them smile again.

I understand not all of us are meant to homeschool – but there are other options. What else would we do? Half of us have already lost our jobs or are worried about losing them. This is a time to get creative.

Over the years, homeschooling has developed a negative connotation and many of today’s politicians are making sure that it stays that way. In my humble opinion, homeschooling is not a barefoot overly religious pregnant woman trying to teach eight kids about creationism.

Simply stated, homeschooling means that the home is directing the kids schooling.

Bottom line, we have been brainwashed to abdicate our children’s education to the state. This social experiment has obviously failed on many levels. It is exhausting us all, and creating many social misfits.

Today homeschooling has millions of inexpensive options that can be easily tailored to each individual family and child within that family. There are also thousands of curriculums on every subject, public-private partnerships, online programs such as K12 and many organizations such as the YMCA and park districts throughout the country have recognized the need for extracurricular activities and created programs to serve home schooled children accordingly.

Teachers and trainers are consistently amazed at how responsive, respectful and polite many of these home schooled children are. Why? Simply because they have not been taught that it is okay to be any other way.

Homeschooling is not weird any more.

So … Pick up your stuff and move to a beautiful, less expensive area where they are not taxing you for a failed public school system and go back to the basics. Tap the resources of your community and begin to enjoy what life with your family can and should be.

Appreciate all you can learn from your children while you are helping them navigate through this crazy world.

Opiate of the Masses

February 10, 2009 - 2:18 pm 1 Comment

OK – so this lady in Ft. Myers just asked if in the billions given to state government for stimulus projects, there will be a check in the mail for individuals and how much will that be for?  “Great question,” says Mr. President.  And he went on to explain that there would be $1000 checks in the mail for middle-class families.  “If you are making $40,000 – $50,000 a year,” he explained, “You could probably really use an extra $1,000 to offset the payroll taxes you are paying.”

MY POINT EXACTLY!  Why not just cut the payroll tax for a year or two, which would immediately put a constant stream of money in the hands of individuals and small businesses (which pay a portion of this tax)!  This means businesses would instantly have additional money to retain workers and grow, even if the revolving lines of credit take longer to flow back into the market.

Why continue to tax workers and businesses this way in these hard times, but send employees a $1,000 check in the mail?  What’s that one-time help supposed to do? Appease us?  Doesn’t anyone understand this?  Apparently not – we are cheering for the government’s generosity while that amount is about what they take out of our salary monthly!

How can Mr. Obama get away with mentioning a $1,000 tax credit check and payroll taxes in the same sentence?  Not only get away with it, but be cheered for it!

President Obama is doing great. He is a master communicator, he can connect emotionally with the populous in any venue, and we all love him for it.  Maybe that’s what we need in these hard times.  

President Obama is the new opiate of the masses.

Obama, Clean Energy, and RV’s?

February 10, 2009 - 2:15 pm No Comments

President Obama is on the road selling his stimulus package.  His rhetoric, as usual, is compelling.  On the surface, it all makes good sense.  But if you look a little deeper, not only at the words, but at the images, there are so many contradictions.

Who was the genius who chose the RV capital of the world to deliver the first major pitch for this stimulus plan? President Obama tells us Joe the RV Builder lost his job because all the people that want to buy RV’s today cannot access the credit to buy them.  Who are all these new RV buyers? Are these the same people that are losing their jobs and their homes?  

So, part of the solution Obama continues to pitch –  in Elkhart yesterday, and today in Ft. Myers – is to borrow $150 billion from China to invest in the green jobs of the future, which will also curb our dependence on foreign oil.  At the same time, these green job workers will now have enough money to buy a gas guzzling 7 mile a gallon RV, which means Joe RV Builder can keep his job.  WHAT?

There are currently hundreds of thousands of used RV’s on the market.  Even new models that did not sell last year – about 60% of the total built – are available.  Why build more?  Can’t we let market forces dictate where the jobs of the future should come from?  It does not sound like RV building would happen naturally without government intervention…

And who is the typical RV buyer?   I can assure you this customer is not the hybrid/electric car customer, or the upper income family willing to pay more for a vehicle that saves the environment.  There is not a market for green RV’s.

So, Mr. President, are you saying we can go green and still keep our camping habits in place?

Now if you tell me that RV’s can become our primary residences so that we can move from state to state looking for a job building solar panels — I will begin to understand your logic.

But logic and rhetoric are no longer taught in the public school system.  That’s a good thing for our current leader, since the general public can no longer deconstruct pretty oratory and will be easily lulled into submission cheering all along the way!

Madame Secretary, anyone?

November 24, 2008 - 1:38 pm No Comments

Is it just me, or do you get the feeling that we are constantly being manipulated by brilliant political handlers?  I think my public relations background has made me perhaps a little more skeptical than the average Joe.  

Why are they dragging this Secretary of State announcement?  The longer it takes for it to be confirmed, the more certain the outcome.  Floating Hillary’s name as bait for lazy news reporters and a gullible public hungry for easy gossipy stories keeps the spotlight off more important issues with far more dramatic implications.  

It’s a beautiful capitalistic model: The more suspense, the more interest.  The more interest, the more eyeballs.  The more eyeballs, the more money news organizations can make on easy stories.  

That leaves the politicians free to make final decisions with our money in the middle of the night (like buying CitiGroups bad debt – 4am Monday – last night while we were all sleeping!).  

It’s the economy, stupid.  Let’s just make sure you stay stupid, stupid.  They tell us what the problem is, and they romance us with what we should be interested in. They package stories with just the perfect amount of juicy tidbits for them to become “newsworthy” and then we all bite.  It’s an art form!  And it works every time…

Hey — how do you think Michelle and Hillary will get along?  Will they be able to keep Bill under control? Did GM sell its private jets? Water cooler chats for the next three weeks…  

Cuba’s got nothing on us!  HA!

Everyone’s An Economist Now

October 10, 2008 - 5:44 pm No Comments

So finally people are paying attention, trying to speed learn what all these terms mean, and how it will affect their lives.  While the politicians are going for the populist message – Get all those executives! Stop the golden parachutes!  Greed on Wall Street!  Those predatory lenders! The evil corporations!  Get all those speculators! Tax the rich, yeah! Make them pay more! – The rest of us are getting shafted.

It did not take long for those quarterly September statements to get to the average folks, who now realize that in just two weeks we have lost more than 50% of the money we have saving for years for retirement.

While paying for my wine and ice cream at the grocery store (hey, we all have different ways of self-soothing) – I told the cashier that we lost another 650 in the market today.  She chuckled and said, “Well, I’m poor, so I do not have any money in the market.”

That still is the general feeling, so the politicians are succeeding with their dumbed-down messages.  Most people do not understand how losing points in the Dow affects them.

Eventually the common man will realize what losing $2 trillion in value in two weeks means.  When those “greedy corporations and businesses” close their doors. Not only are jobs lost, but there is less supply and competition for the goods and services that we all depend on.  So, not only does quality go down but prices go up – as less entities are providing the goodies.

With so much capital leaving the system, money also becomes more expensive and harder to come by.  Which means slower economic growth, which pulls us all down.  By the way, the tiny percentage of filthy rich people will still be filthy rich.  That really will not affect anything, except for giving the politicians more ammunition for their silly messages.

So now comes the Messiah, and raises taxes on the filthy rich, on corporations, on capital, on any class of income, while at the same time clamping down on free trade agreements, closing down potential markets for the things we produce.  This means that while it cost more money to produce the goods and services we all need, and more international markets shut down for said goods and services, prices will go up, as employment opportunities dwindle, and companies try to find more efficiencies through technology and going abroad.

Then the government has to step in.  Mandates are passed which force entities to provide basic goods and services at fixed prices.  Barack has also proposed penalties for companies that ship jobs overseas.  This is what the people now demand as more and more of them depend on entitlements, because so much government intervention has made it impossible for the free market to succeed.  Now we demand that politicians make good on their promises, and if they don’t, we kick them out and elect the ones that can make things happen.

And then we become like all those other nations with huge governments.

Already we have seen how the federal government has given us a stimulus package in the summer — $2000 for every grown up and $600 per child; billions of rescue dollars for AIG, Freddie and Fannie, the airline industries, state and local governments, Wamu and other huge banks, etc. etc. etc.

Now we have huge bureaucracies lining up for handouts to avoid “impending catastrophes” – California, Massachussets.

Promises to nationalize healthcare are as popular as nationalizing our education system were long ago.  Now they have us believing that healthcare is a right, just as education is a right.  Which would be great, if the government did it well.  But with so many public schools failing – why would we trust the government to take over other parts of our lives?

Nationalizing all these entities is very scary.  All we have to do is look at other countries to see clear examples of the disaster that this has caused.  The greed and corruption created when government controls huge amounts of money, equity and power over mammoth entities and bureaucracies is hard to phantom.

I fear that we are headed towards the type of country in which government fails to provide the necessary infrastructure for individuals to succeed through creativity, innovation and hard work.  That is what has always characterized this nation.  That is the American Dream.  That is why people want to come here.

When people see the government as the provider; when the only way to succeed is to join the government – in any capacity – and move through the ranks to participate in the briberies and corruption, then you have Argentina, for instance.

Argentina, once a great nation, has become so corrupt, that people do not trust anyone, not even their own families.  Money dictates every kind of behavior – because money is so hard to come by and to keep if you happen to get your hands on something good.

Laws are viewed as suggestions, and they only matter if you get caught.  Even so, you can always bribe an official, as most of them consider the extra income as one of the main reasons they got the government job to being with.  Sounds cynical?  My family lives it every day.

Obama Has My Vote!

September 29, 2008 - 9:21 pm 1 Comment

I have generally been a pretty decisive person, but this election has changed all that.  It has been frustrating watching what has been going on.  But, I have finally made a decision and I am putting my full support behind Barack Obama.

Being a former spin doctor myself, I tend to listen to the words they say and the coverage from the press, and I get annoyed at the way things are presented. I get quite irritated by the lack of knowledge from many people of the most basic facts of our history and government.  In the age of the sound bite, when people are more interested in what Lindsey Lohan’s pocket dog is eating than in contributing to society, I am reluctantly accepting the fact that we get what we deserve.

There is no denying that only in this country can a relatively unknown, highly inexperienced good looking man with a minimal record of accomplishment can reach such heights through the power of oratory.  We are enamored, enraptured, swayed and lulled into a comfortably numb feeling of empowerment by the presence and well crafted necklace of words, perfectly delivered by this gift of a man.

If nothing else, perhaps this will help logic and rhetoric to be reintroduced into our schools curriculums.

It’s funny that this whole financial crisis is partly being blamed by executive incompetence.  Who hired these people?  How did they get so far?  Were they attractive and well spoken as well?  Did they have a good pitch and a few successes under their belt?

We are about to turn over the keys to the executive suite to the Junior Senator from Illinois.  He will have executive power on everything from commerce, national security, healthcare, housing and education.  He will be Commander in Chief of the world’s most powerful military.  He will oversee a budget of trillions of dollars.

Half of our nation, including most of our youngsters, most of our minorities, most of our University intellectuals, most of our media outlets, the majority of the world, including most of our enemies, are drugged with enthusiasm over this Savior, that will come in and inject hope and solutions into every failed system of our infrastructure.

When he is elected, there will be a huge party around the world.  And the promised change will come, we hope?

And who are the silent voices that dare oppose the world’s inspiring vision?  The minority of small business owners who create the most new employment through innovation and hard work; the Christian community that cannot buy into the whole vision because of some fundamental differences of life and death; Cuban expats who have lived through their own Messiah who also offered visions of hope and change in the person of Fidel; Iraqi leaders who feared quick abandonment with a change of policy, as we have done in so many other conflicts around the world.

When you have a teenager, or young adult child who refuses to listen to wisdom, or to work hard for an education, or for betterment in general, you eventually have to let them hit rock bottom and hope that they will find a better way out of the chaos of their feel good decisions of the moment.  Obama has my vote.  I think that he is not only what we deserve at this moment in our history.  He is what this country needs.  And he will also be easy on the eyes.

I am Geri Chaffee and I approve this message.

Obama tour shifts to Israel (USA Today 7/23/08)

July 23, 2008 - 7:15 pm No Comments

USA Today has a cover story on Senator Obama’s World Tour, and the headline reads: “Candidate sees solving Arab-Israeli conflict as key to peace in Middle East”.  Really?  I am so relieved that we finally have a leader that can tell us how to bring peace to this volatile region.  Sign me up!

Luther Was An Anti-Semite!

July 11, 2008 - 11:19 pm No Comments
You study, you read and you think you’ve heard it all — and then you find out that Luther was an anti-semite.  
 
The same guy that nailed the 95 Thesis to the door in protest of all the injustices carried out by the Pope and his minions in the name of God, actually hated Jews and thought Muslims were vermin.  Perfect.
 
Apparently there was one thing he did agree with — that extermination was a legitimate way of squashing dissent.  He believed that peasants that did not agree with him should be killed.   He also disliked Calvinists because apparently they thought more kindly of Jews.  He wrote, The Jews And Their Lies — hardly a pamphlet to encourage tolerance and love of thy neighbor.
 
My husband grew up in the Lutheran Church and he never knew this. 
 
St. Louis was a killer.  One of the most revered Saints, Luis IX of France, Leader of the Holy Roman Empire, canonized by the Pope with many fine cities and children named after him, led two crusades into the Middle East and made it his mission to kill as many Jews and Muslims as he came across.
 
I went to an elementary school in Puerto Rico called San Luis Rey.  I never understood why Rey, meaning King, was placed after the name of a Saint.  Now I know. 
 
In teaching our 8 and 10 year olds about the Middle Ages, I wonder how much I should leave out? 
 
What is the difference between the cruelty and ignorance that led to an entire continent uniting their men (and sometimes children) to walk to another continent and kill its inhabitants to recapture what they believed was sacred ground … and today’s Islamist extremist, who will traverse seas and oceans to kill who they believe is threatening their way of life?
 
It seems the only differences are 800 years and instant communication.  Oh, and weapons technology.

Trailer Trash At Last

June 22, 2008 - 9:11 pm 2 Comments

Well, this is it.  Not exactly a van down by the river, but camping in our front yard is pretty close.  We are fixing a few things in our house, which has been on the market for two years and has not sold.  Every potential buyer loved it but wanted a bigger closet in the master bedroom, so we are giving it to them! 

In the meantime, we have moved into our camper.  In our driveway. 

There are a few advantages to living in the camper.  You can hear the birds sing early in the Midwestern morning when you have to crawl out into the just-before-sunrise darkness to relieve yourself.  The boys have the advantage of just pointing their unit in any direction swinging from the trailer’s door, but I have to actually walk 20 feet to the front door of the house to find the nearest bathroom.

Early birds chirping.  Put that in the plus column.  Walking for relief, not such a plus.

The cat still sleeps in the house – so he does not wake us up in the middle of the night with its latest regurgitated catch.  I can still remember that time when I got up and placed my fingers on something warm and gooey on our bedspread.  It turned out to be a vomited mouse – its teeth, little nose with whiskers and tail still clearly visible.

So, the second plus; No midnight cat puke.

Surprisingly, Tom and I feel we get our best sleep in the little camper bed.  Not sure what it is, maybe it’s the coziness of the tiny area, or the cheap mattress that came with the thing, or all the old blankets we use, the absolute darkness, or the fact that we are forced to snuggle due to space constraints.

Trailer trash bonus number three;  Good night’s sleep.

I like to think of our living arrangements as an old Spanish Hacienda with its typical open air courtyard between the sleeping wing and the main living areas of the property.  I will be planting a few flowers in our courtyard tomorrow.  Everything in the house is an unlivable dusty mess, but there are still some things I can control.

There is supposed to be a big storm tomorrow.  Hopefully it will have a lot of thunder, lightning, and rain.  Maybe we’ll get hail.  I love Midwestern summer storms.  There really isn’t anything like it.  The lightning is so fierce, it turns night into day.  When it pours, you can hardly hear yourself speak in the trailer.  It is so loud in there, it feels like the end of the world is near.  I hope we don’t lose power – that would not be good!